Venus square Neptune

What does Venus square Neptune mean in the natal chart?

Your Venus and Neptune pull in different directions, which makes love easy to idealize. You fall for what someone could be, then struggle when their actual self shows up — and the illusions, including the ones you tell yourself, can run deep. The thing to watch is keeping alive a love that mostly lived in your imagination. Pointed at someone real, that same capacity for devotion is rare and beautiful.